I have decided not to host a Minecraft server at all for now, I don't know if I'll change my mind in the future, I just don't want to dedicate the time to moderate a public server.
Join the discord at https://discord.com/invite/tdg2Bf9PpT
List of modpacks and other info, I will add useful mods for mod packs to this wiki later.
Currently it will have a list of custom mod packs that I create.